balefire

a large fire in the open air; bonfire

a signal fire; beacon

the fire of a funeral pile

Hey there.

You’ve found your way here for a reason. You’re contemplating what it means to care for others—and for yourself—in the face of mortality. That’s where I come in.

I am your Mortality Companion, a guide through the landscapes of caregiving, legacy, and end-of-life contemplation. These are not unfamiliar paths to me. I have walked them many times, lighting the way for those who need steady footing. You don’t have to navigate this alone.

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A Light on the Path

The Tibetan name given to me during my refuge ceremony is Dechen Chodron—loosely translated as "blissful lamp on the path of dharma." Nearly a decade later, this name still guides my purpose: to stand as a steady presence in the often-overlooked space between living and dying.

I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I know these woods of mortality well. If we come across a path that is unfamiliar, I will walk it with you. Together, we can face anything.

Welcome. You are exactly where you need to be.

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